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Breastfeeding Like a Boss

The Modern Mom’s Guide

Practical, judgment-free guidance for every stage—from preparing for birth to pumping at work and weaning.

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Prologue

A Note from the Founder

Abbey Donnell shares why Work & Mother created a practical, judgment-free guide for modern working parents.

  • Support without judgment
  • Defining success for your family
  • When to seek professional help
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Chapter 1

Introduction

An introduction to breastfeeding benefits and a flexible approach that respects every family’s circumstances.

  • Why breastfeed
  • Benefits for baby and Mom
  • Benefits for employers
  • Formula and flexible feeding
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Chapter 2

Breastfeeding Biology

A clear look at breast anatomy, milk production, supply and the role your baby’s feeding cues play.

  • Anatomy
  • How milk is made
  • Letting your baby lead
  • Milk delays
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Chapter 3

Preparing Mind & Body

Practical preparation for feeding, with guidance on nutrition, everyday habits, stress and self-care.

  • Food and hydration
  • Alcohol and caffeine
  • Medication questions
  • Stress and self-care
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Chapter 4

Planning for Your Birth

Steps you can take before birth to feel informed, supported and ready for the early postpartum weeks.

  • Birthing classes
  • Choosing a doula
  • Maternity leave preparation
  • Breastfeeding stations
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Chapter 5

Birth Part I

How birth experiences can shape the first feeds, including guidance for C-sections and NICU stays.

  • Skin-to-skin
  • Hospital visitors
  • C-section support
  • The NICU
  • Early pumping
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Chapter 6

Birth Part II

The first latch, your baby’s hunger cues and the physical changes that begin after delivery.

  • Signs baby is ready to latch
  • Hunger cues
  • Colostrum
  • Postpartum cramps
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Chapter 7

Day One

What to expect during your baby’s first 24 hours, from the first feeding through recovery and sleep.

  • The first two hours
  • Hours 3–24
  • Recovery sleep
  • When to ask for support
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Chapter 8

Breastfeeding Fundamentals

Foundational techniques for finding a comfortable latch, hold and feeding rhythm.

  • Latching 101
  • Popular holds
  • Session length
  • Feeding frequency
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Chapter 9

Day Two–Day Fourteen

A guide through milk coming in, cluster feeding and the normal signs to watch during the first two weeks.

  • Milk transition
  • Cluster feeding
  • Diaper watch
  • Weight and growth
  • Fussy babies
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Chapter 10

Two Weeks–Six Months

Milestones and changing feeding patterns as supply becomes established and your baby grows.

  • Two weeks old
  • Four–six weeks
  • Growth spurts
  • Introducing a bottle
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Chapter 11

Breastfeeding Challenges & Solutions

Straightforward guidance for common discomforts, supply concerns and postpartum recovery.

  • Sore nipples
  • Clogged ducts
  • Mastitis
  • Engorgement
  • Pain and recovery
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Chapter 12

Pumping Exclusively

Support for establishing and maintaining milk supply when pumping is your primary feeding method.

  • Getting started
  • Hospital-grade pumps
  • Frequency and duration
  • Tracking supply
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Chapter 13

Returning to the Office

A practical plan for balancing breastfeeding at home with pumping during the workday.

  • Building a routine
  • Workplace boundaries
  • Packing to pump
  • Boosting supply
  • Milk storage
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Chapter 14

The Weaning Process

A gradual, compassionate approach to reducing pumping sessions and weaning your baby from the breast.

  • Taking it slowly
  • Reducing pumping sessions
  • Weaning from the breast
  • Supporting your baby
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Quick-reference resources

Appendices

Appendix I

Let’s Talk About Bras

How to choose supportive nursing bras as your body changes.

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Appendix II

Breast Shields for Pumping

How flange fit affects comfort and pumping performance.

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Appendix III

Breastfeeding Flashcards

Quick-reference checklists for the hospital and early days.

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Appendix IV

Your Birth Map

A flexible planning tool for birth preferences and unexpected turns.

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Appendix V

Other Health Concerns

Important prompts for discussing health and medication questions with your care team.

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Appendix VI

Supplementary Videos

A directory of Work & Mother videos for each stage of the journey.

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Appendix VII

About Ann Gabaldon

Meet the lactation consultant and certified nurse midwife who helped develop the guide.

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A note about medical advice

This guide is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. If you have concerns about your health, your baby’s health or breastfeeding, consult your physician, lactation consultant or another healthcare provider promptly.

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